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Handling Audition Nerves: Three Mental Reframes for Actors

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Introduction: Auditions Are The Most Important Skill To Master

Hi, I’m Max – A High Performance Coach.

Today’s reading we are tackling possibly the most fundamental challenge for actors – Effective Auditions

Here’s a worthy goal if you’re an actor: Become a world-class auditioner. 

Auditioning is an essential part of an actor’s life, and I would argue is the most essential to master. From short turnaround times to reading lines opposite someone who’s not even an actor, the hurdles are many. But by far, the biggest obstacle I see actors facing is nerves.

Let’s be real—the life of an actor is tough, often filled with uncertainty and struggle. Auditions can feel like a golden ticket to escape that grind. But that mindset can trap you, making the audition seem more daunting than it needs to be. Instead of seeing auditions as your lifeline, let’s shift your perspective.

Here are three mental reframes that can help you overcome those nerves and show up as the professional you are. 

1. The Audition Is the Gig—Not a Means to a Gig

The nerves kick in when you start thinking beyond the audition—imagining what your life might look like if you land the role. This kind of thinking creates attachment, which leads to tightness in your performance. And let’s be clear, tightness is a death sentence for an actor.

The key is to view the audition as the gig itself, not just a step toward something else. When you approach the audition as an end in itself, you change the way you show up. You’re not there to beg for a job—you’re because you got the job: THE AUDITION ITSELF. Don’t just skip along here, comprehension has many degrees, comprehend this deeply. 

2. Make Clear Choices

When you’re in the audition room, it’s easy to second-guess yourself, wondering what the casting directors want. But the truth is, they often don’t know what they want until they see it. That’s why it’s crucial to make clear, definitive choices in your expression of the role.

A strong choice will get you noticed, even if it’s not exactly what they had in mind. Sitting on the fence and playing it safe won’t make you memorable. That said, this doesn’t mean being sensational for the sake of it—be bold, but also nuanced. Show your understanding of the character through your choices, and commit to them fully.

3. Do Work That You Are Happy With

Finally, stop fixating on “What do they want from me?” because the reality is, you’ll never really know. Instead, focus on doing work that you’re proud of. Ask yourself, “If I stick with the brief but have complete creative freedom in my expression, how would I approach this?” Then, give yourself permission to do just that.

By focusing on what makes you feel fulfilled as an artist, you’ll naturally deliver a more authentic and compelling performance. And even if you don’t get the role, you’ll walk away knowing you stayed true to your craft, which is a win in itself.

Conclusion: Master the Art of Auditioning

The audition room doesn’t have to be a place of fear and anxiety. By shifting your mindset—seeing the audition as the gig, making clear choices, and doing work that you’re proud of—you can transform your approach and reduce those nerves.

Remember, being a world-class auditioner isn’t about getting every role; it’s about showing up as your best self every time, regardless of the outcome. If this resonates with you, and you’re ready to take your audition game to the next level, let’s talk here.

Max, High-Performance Coach.

About Max Stephens
NLP Performance Coach
My practice is focused on empowering couples, businesses, and individuals to achieve significant improvements in their levels of performance capacity, fulfilment, earning potential and overall effectiveness, fostering growth and positive change in various aspects of their lives.