Introduction:
Hi, I’m Max – A High Performance Coach.
Today’s reading could be a major turning point if you take it seriously.
Especially for high performers driven by external goals, success, and achievement, I challenge you to think deeply about this: When will enough be enough? Many clients have responded in my private practice, “Nothing is ever enough for me,” as if it’s a badge of honor. But understand that saying “yes” to this mindset means saying “no” to other meaningful parts of life—like relationships, deeper emotional connections, and contributing to loved ones. Take a moment to reflect: You’ve already achieved goals you once thought would make you happy. But has that “finish line” feeling ever really arrived?
What this reading offers is a chance to be intentional about your life, so you don’t get caught in the endless trap of seeking success for its own sake.
Here are three questions to help you define your own version of enough and ensure that your pursuit of financial success aligns with what a meaningful life means to you.
1) Money Aside, What Really Matters to Me?
Most people will answer quickly—“family,” “travel,” “freedom”—but I’m inviting you to go deeper. Go beyond these surface-level answers and dig into the why. Even high-net-worth clients who can afford to travel the world find themselves feeling lost and unfulfilled. It’s easy to get swept up in western culture’s definition of success, but have you ever questioned why these things matter to you? What do you genuinely want out of life that isn’t tied to money? Could it be that true peace and fulfillment are simpler than you’ve been led to believe? Western consumer culture has conditioned you to want more and more—but have you ever considered that this may not be the same as contentment?
Action: Take 30-60 minutes of uninterrupted time to write down what really matters to you, without mentioning money. Peel back the layers—why do those things matter? Go beyond the surface and question how much your desires have been shaped by cultural conditioning. What would make your life deeply meaningful, outside of financial success?
2) How Much Money Do I Need To Have What Really Matters?
Now that you’ve identified what truly matters, let’s shift focus to money. Here’s where many people get a reality check. You may find that what you really want costs far less than you originally thought. For instance, deep connections with loved ones, peace of mind, or time spent pursuing passions—these things don’t always require vast wealth. In fact, some of the most fulfilled people live on modest incomes. Once you realize this, your perspective on wealth shifts, and financial goals start aligning with your actual priorities.
Action: List the things that matter to you and write down what financial resources you need to support those desires. For example, if what you value most is spending time with your family, how much do you really need to make that happen? Probably not much as you most likely live under the same roof. Reassess what’s driving your financial goals—are you pursuing money for its own sake, or for what truly brings fulfillment uniquely to you?
3) Stay Focused on Your Definition of Enough
The challenge here is staying true to what you’ve defined as enough. Society is constantly bombarding you with messages to want more: bigger houses, more expensive cars, and endless achievements. But how do you stay grounded in your authentic desires amidst this noise? The key is remembering that your definition of success is yours. Don’t let external pressures or cultural expectations dictate what you pursue. Your financial contentment should be aligned with your values, not the ever-changing metrics of success imposed by others.
Action: Write down the top three external pressures you feel regarding money and success. These could be cultural expectations, peer comparisons, or societal norms. Then compare them to the life you’ve envisioned in step one—are you living for yourself or to meet someone else’s standards? This really is a profoundly deep question.
Conclusion:
This exercise can transform how you approach life and work—if you let it. The world is constantly pulling you in different directions, pushing you to want more without ever asking what you actually want. Defining your version of enough isn’t just about money—it’s actually about reclaiming your life. And no, that’s not an over exaggeration.
If today’s reading resonated with you, reach out to me for a complimentary conversation here.
Max – High Performance Coach.
